We all know how desperate
ladies get when it is time for
them to settle down. Many of
them get so depressed with
the fact that their mates are
getting married and moving on
in life. Although their
situation may be pathetic or
pitiable at times, one has to
consider how they have lived
their lives in the past.
Not all that glitters is gold;
most women end up being old
and single because of the
choices they have made in life.
Not only are they choosy, some
of them have unrealistic
expectations and goals. Indeed,
some people appear to have it
all, but one cannot tell the
secret battle they fight every
day to get while living glamorous
lives.
Every woman have certain
things they look for in men; for
some it is love, while some have
a long list of traits their future
husbands must possess. Many of
these ladies forget that there
is no perfect man in the world
and those who seem to have a
perfect bundle in marriage had
to work hard to get there.
There are certain sets of guys
that women would always find
attractive irrespective of their
physical looks and stature. Not
being able to find these guys
often make women remain single
for as long as possible.
Desperation and age often make
them snap out of fantasies.
Find below the set of guys
women would always chase for
marriage:
1. Artistes
There is this thing about
celebrities that attracts ladies;
fame is something everyone
wants to be a part of. Many
ladies chase artists who are
celebrities with the hope of
settling down with them.
What many of these ladies do
not understand is that most of
these artistes are too reckless
lovers; the prospect of
marriage does not sell to many
of them. Most ladies would not
mind marrying celebrities.
2. Guys who live abroad
For some silly reasons, women
are attracted to guys who do
not live in Nigeria. As soon as
the ladies get to know the men
are not based in the country,
they start to develop some fake
feelings for them. Most of
these ladies see the guys who
live outside the country as
tickets to the foreign countries
they live in.
They do not want to know the
kind of job the guys do while
they are abroad, all that
matters is living there with
them. They go to any extent
when it comes to marrying
these guys so that their status
could change.
3. Guys working in oil company
The oil sector of this country
no doubt brings in money; men
who work in this sector are
seen as big boys. Not only are
they gainfully employed, most
of them live large and are able
to afford the basic things in
life.
They are respected amidst
their friends and family folks.
Ladies chase guys in this
category because they know
they are signing out of poverty
by being with them. As soon as
a woman knows a man works in
an oil company, it would boost
her attitude towards him.
4. Politicians
Politicians in Nigeria are always
loaded; most of them spend
money anyhow and can afford to
go on vacations anytime they
want. Ladies chase after them
because they know they would
make a fortune out of them.
Many of these ladies think
being married to politicians
would give them the life of
comfort they crave for. Many
of them end up being lucky
while some do not enjoy the
union.
5. Car sellers
Ladies love chasing guys who sell
cars; these guys are rich too
and have been able to make
major investments in life other
than selling cars. Many of them
are comfortable and have many
properties in their names.
Ladies do not want to hustle
with men anymore; they
basically want a ready-made
man who would take care of
their needs and help them live a
flamboyant lifestyle.
6. Doctors
Doctors get well paid in this
part of the country; the
respect accrued to that
profession is also satisfactory.
Ladies want to marry doctors
and chase after them the
moment they know that part of
them. They know their future
would be bright if they got
married to men like that.
7. Business men
There are some men who are
highly successful in the
businesses they run; many of
them have containers on the
high sea and have affiliation
with top politicians in the
country. Ladies chase after men
like these because they know
what they stand to gain being
married to them.
Many of these business men are
Igbo men; if you are familiar
with the lifestyle of these
people, you would understand
that their wives are usually a
reflection of their vast wealth.
