ALL MEN ~ MUST READ.
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1. Before you start a relationship with a lady,
you must think carefully about what you are
about to do. A relationship is not something
you should rush into or handle lightly.
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2. Are you ready for a relationship with her?
Are you emotionally, mentally and spiritually
mature to meet her needs?
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3. Being sexually attracted to her means
absolutely nothing. It isn’t a sign of likeness,
love or any other thing your mind may come
up with. It may just be your hormones
messing with your mind. A woman is more
than her body and her sexuality. She has a
life which you should be able to blend with.
Can you do that?
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4. This lady has a history. Can you handle it?
She has a past. Can you handle it? Can you
handle her mistakes, failures and
weaknesses? Can you handle her dreams
without being intimidated and becoming
jealous?
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5. She already had a life before she met you.
Can you fit into and help improve her life?
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6. Love is commitment. Are you ready to
commit your life to helping her grow and
become all that she can be, by God’s grace?
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7. Is she valuable enough for you to devote a
large portion of your life towards the
accomplishment of HER dream? Are you ready
to pour your resources into making her all
God plans for her to be? If you are not ready,
don’t just bother.
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8. Before you open your mouth to say ‘I love
you’, ask yourself if this is not just a moment
of ‘emotional madness’. A lady needs much
more than ‘I love you’. She needs your
commitment. If you are not ready to make
that commitment that will lead to marriage,
please leave her alone in peace and stop
wasting her time and resource.