HEAR WHAT A MOTHER TOLD HER DAUGHTER ON
HER WEDDING DAY
.
My daughter,you are now a wife and soon you'll be
become a mother too. God bear me witness that I
taught you how to cook and do other house
chores.
I taught you to respect men and to explain your
anger when necessary but if you do otherwise,i
know you,not as a daughter but as my
fellow woman.
My daughter,you see this your husband? He is a
gentleman but don't take advantage of that. Don't
bring out the beast in him. My daughter,you see
this mark on my forehead?
Your father gave it to me.He tolerated me
every time but on that day,He came
unexpectedly.It
wasn't his intention but i dared him and he hit me
just once
My daughter,Men hate it when you use the word
"YOU CAN'T DO IT" He sure can do more than but
he's just protecting yo from harm.
My daughter, whenever there is an argument or
misunderstanding, try drinking water.You can't talk
when you have water in your mouth.
Now,you have two families.You are very
lucky.Tolerate and appreciate them just as you did
here.
Learn to welcome other people's kids and
soon, children will surround your table with love.
You see that my big pot? I bought it when i still
had
no child but i always cooked with it to feed those
children who had nothing to eat.
Learn to show hospitality. Welcome a visitor and at
least,offer a glass of water.Don't
discriminate. Don't shatter your husband's family.
instead, bring them together.
Learn to appreciate little efforts and soon,they'll
learn to do more.
Today,you are wearing a wedding gown and you
look so beautiful in it but there is still another
gown
you need to wear.That is the MATERNITY gown. I
wore it and you shall wear yours too.
When you have a misunderstanding, don't come
back here.Sort things out and build a happy
home.I
built mine and your father enjoyed me.
Men like food.They like both the KITCHEN food and
the BEDROOM food.Don't deny him any of the food
all because you had an argument.
If the ones i taught you are not enough, learn more
