I saw this on facebook and i decided to share this with you guyz.
My daughter, tomorrow you will stop bearing my name. You will be happily married to the man you love. Dont miss me because i have fulfilled my purpose. It is now time for you to start fulfilling yours.
From your childhood, i have raised you well by the grace of God but before you i do, there are few things I need to tell you about living with a man and being married. Do you remember when you wrote your WAEC and JAMB exams ? You came to me and i gave you #20,000 for the registration ? Well, even though i gave it to you, the money was not mine. I know you always thought i pay the fees. The truth is, i was broke... But your mother gave me the money. She could have given it to you but she decided to give it to me to give it to you. Support your husband. Sometimes things will get tough... He will be frustrated. Even though he acts tough, in his hand he has fear... He fears you may not value him anymore because he has fallen. That is the time to get behind him and support him ! The best way to show your husband that you love him is to respect him ! You may argue with him, you may disagree but at the end of the day, let him know he has you respect. Do you remember the day i screamed at your mother ? What did she do ? She was quiet. My daughter learn to be quiet sometimes when your husband is angry. When he is hot, you should be cool. If two are always screaming at the same time, that is how big problems start in marriage. The first thing to know about your husband is his favourite food. If he has more than one then keep them at the back of your mind. Dont let him ask for it, always prepare it for him. There was a day your mother caught me touching a woman's hand affectionately. I was lusting after that woman but i was not yet cheating on your mum. When she saw us... She didnt fight the lady, she quietly left. I was afraid of going home because all hell will break lose. But when i got home she said nothing. She served me my food. Guilt was taking control over me. I started begging. From that day, I never looked at a woman twice. Who know if she had fought and threatened me... Maybe i could have run away from the fight into the arm of that lady. Sometimes silent brings better solution than fight. Forget those romantic novels y6u read while you were 21. Remember those Indian and American love movies ? Also remember those interesting Nollywood films on African magic ? Forget them. Dont expect your married life to be that way. Life is different from fiction. The last thing i want to te you... Do you remember how you were born ? After our wedding, things were tough and your mum had to do two jobs to support us. I was working as well. I get home 6PM while she gets home 8PM tired. But when we get to bed... She never deny me my food. Dont form a habit of denying your husband his night food. Be a good wife and you will realize you married the best man on earth.
