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A COOLVALER NEEDS HELP

A COOLVALER NEEDS HELP

By Lawman in 22 Jan 2018 | 15:45
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she is a friend d best In all the guy friends and lady friends I av, she is the one and only. I take her as my sibling. We were always cool together hiding nothing from each other. I know her bf who claims to be her fiance and she knows my girl.. Absolutely nothing is hidden between us. When we have problems we share between ourselves and solve it between ourselves without anyone knowing, sometimes when am sad she becomes My source of happiness and vice-versa......and suddenly she started misbehaving no matter what she does I still love, cherish and take care of her as a sister and a friend. But she won't stop misbehaving and getting me angry.. I later find out the cause, it was this guy who always come to her side I never have problem with who ever she talks to bcus am not her bf. And because of this guy now she is no more enjoying my company always feels uncomfortable when ever I come around unlike before we chat and laugh like siblings which we are... Bt now she hardly give out a smile to me but smile talks and laugh with who ever comes to her no matter how hard I try making her smile she won't subscribe to it. I have ask her if there's anything I did wrong but she won't say it always telling me to go away,

Several times on several occasions has she always snob me but I wave it away because I always think if I should follow her footsteps our friendship will soon come to an end..... There is nothing she needs from me anymore not even the advice I always give to her as a friend..... Since I can't find anything I did wrong to her It's obvious now that she doesn't want to continue this friendship but I don't want to end it either because am afraid to loose a friend like her...

But right now I can't endure it anymore Now I think it's the right time I put an end to this friendship that is no more progressing......

I was planning to call her and tell her this but I decided to get a piece of advice from us...... Pls what do you guys think I should do?
22 Jan 2018 | 15:45
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hnm this is serious. My advice is simple b patient with her don't call-off the friendship bcos that wil make things worse. Bt let her b for while and pray 4 her nt to fall into any harm. I believe she wil realise are mistakes and retrace her step back. JUST PRAY FOR HER
22 Jan 2018 | 16:32
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can't u read d writings on d wall.....bet her guy warned her to stay away from u...morever keeping a gal for a best frnd for a male is like keeping a chicken for a pet ...u would one day eat it...it best u both go ur separate ways unlesss u both are planning suntin c.riux togeda
22 Jan 2018 | 16:46
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Hmmm
22 Jan 2018 | 17:00
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Vhiz z serious oo
22 Jan 2018 | 17:00
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All i no z dat frnds do end and dat's wad is about to appen.... Terminate it
22 Jan 2018 | 17:01
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With what you have written, it clearly shows that she is keeping off you. You have tried your best to know what the prob is, but she won't give in. My Advice, to you is this: "As a guy and to prove you are a real man, don't ever call her to end the friendship." "Stay off her, don't call her for any reason, but don't be harsh and don't let it to be known to all that you two are distant." If she sees you don't care about her, she would surely come to you to know why.
22 Jan 2018 | 17:12
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give her space with time u will no want is wrong
22 Jan 2018 | 17:15
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Bros just let her be because i will not tolerate it if my girl friend keep a Guy as her best friend i won't take it (coolval patrol gang)
22 Jan 2018 | 18:21
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Since she is snubbing you, nd u have tried ur best to be close to her again but it's not working,, then you snub her too Lobatan.... Shuuu
22 Jan 2018 | 18:31
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I know you wouldn't want to be the one to end it so, its better to act like her
22 Jan 2018 | 21:06
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Just behave the way she's behaving towards the friendship and I assure that it will end automatically
22 Jan 2018 | 21:09
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yea i think wat she need is jt space, so jt let her be 4 a while nd see wat d outcome will be
23 Jan 2018 | 04:50
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This is serious. Just give some space,i bet she'll come around
23 Jan 2018 | 05:05
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Lol... Bruv! U need not to call her... Jez let her be... Maintain ya lane... She's gonna come back soonest... Thats how most ladies we take as besties do... when d guy don chop am run, her eye go clear; she go come dae find way to come back to you. dont even ask after her or talk to anybody abt her... Jez watch like zombie...
23 Jan 2018 | 12:23
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Hmmm
23 Jan 2018 | 13:02
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Maybe her guy warned her about you
23 Jan 2018 | 13:03
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Or she jealous
23 Jan 2018 | 13:04
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This one serious o
23 Jan 2018 | 13:31
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