However, we can safely say that highly desirable
women will likely have the following nine
characteristics.
1. They don’t chase people
Highly desirable women would rather chase their
own awesomeness, because they know running
after people is just a waste of time. They also know
that it is a much better idea to become better
versions of their own selves. The world will take
notice when they progress in their own lives.
They don’t have time for such chases because they
are just too busy creating a better life for
themselves. That’s what makes a woman more
desirable — that carefree, confident attitude. They
are complete in themselves.
2. They are in control of their emotions
You won’t find desirable women moping about
every bad relationship or failure in their lives.
Instead, they are always in control of their
emotions. They don’t waste their time and energy in
harboring useless emotions that won’t bring them
progress.
Simply put, desirable women would much rather be
a shoulder when needed than be a constant cry
baby.
3. They avoid gossip
Desirable women would rather use their time
productively than for indulging in petty gossip.
Gossip and too much talking creates drama.
Desirable women know this. Petty gossip, useless
talking, and drama is for school girls — not the
desirable women that we look up to.
4. They are not attention seekers
You will not see desirable women posting selfies
constantly or changing their relationship statuses on
social media with every crush. They don’t like to
spam people with such trivialities. They would much
rather be known and talked about for their real and
meaningful achievements.
They believe in earning attention from like-minded
people, not snatching it with constant updates on
the happenings in their lives. They earn respect
instead of asking for it. They believe in maintaining
a mystery about their lives which only selected
people can have access to.
5. They don’t lose themselves in their relationships
It’s not that they hold back. Desirable women don’t
lose themselves to create happiness for someone
else. They have a life of their own that goes beyond
the relationship. They don’t cling to their boyfriends
or girlfriends constantly.
They don’t lose sight of their goals and dreams for
love. They don’t lose their identity. Desirable
women make smart decisions about how much time
they are willing to devote to their relationships and
to their goals. They set their priorities. They let their
relationships add to their lives — not become their
whole lives.
6. They have hobbies and pa$$ions
Desirable women make ma$$ive efforts to become
better at their hobbies and pa$$ions. You won’t find
these women constantly procrastinating. They find
out what they love doing and do it with finesse.
Desirable women don’t waste their lives with
mindless addictions, like staring at their mobile
phones all day. They use their time to take up
hobbies and work on improving. Some of the most
desirable women are the ones who care deeply
about their hobbies. It defines them and makes
them more interesting people.
7. They are fiercely intelligent
Intelligence does not always refer to IQ. Desirable
women are fiercely intelligent in terms of their
understanding of the world and its people. They
have a certain kind of wisdom that comes from
experience, from a plethora of mistakes and a life
full of lessons.
They have impeccable understanding of life and
themselves — something that really adds to their
desirability. They are no strangers to deep
conversation.
8. They are always graceful
Women who understand and take pride in their
womenhood are the ones that know that grace and
elegance are not qualities you compromise with.
It’s not about their appearance but their aura. What
makes them highly desirable is that they don’t
worry about their physical shortcomings. They fix
what they can and carry themselves with elegance
and charm that only a lady can possess.
They dress well and know how to exude confidence.
What makes this all the more easier is that
desirable women know that grace does not come
with expensive fashion choices. It comes with self
confidence.
9. They are brilliant communicators
They have clarity of thought and it shows in the
words they choose, no matter which language those
words are in. The confidence that they exude can
easily win over hearts. They are logical with the
right mix of rationality and emotion. Desirable
women don’t overdo it.
They will let you talk, make you feel wanted, hear
you with compa$$ion, and show genuineness in
their interactions. They know how important it is to
be a good communicator and they also know what it
takes to be one.
These are some of the characteristics of highly
desirable women. Of course, there are many other
traits that can be deemed “desirable.”
Nevertheless, these are a few characteristics that
will always draw us in.
