[b]1. You worry that the clock is ticking. Often women over
30 start to panic because they get concerned they’ll be too old
to have children. But this mind-set can make you feel desperate
and propel you to marry someone who is wrong for you.
2. You are in a relationship that makes you feel anxious
or brings you down. Ask yourself: Does my partner inspire
me to do my best? Perhaps he or she is overly critical or too
focused on changing you to be supportive of your needs or
goals.
3. You feel panicked when your partner doesn’t call or
text you (or return your calls) when they say they would. This
is a red flag and could signify that you may be feeling insecure
and/or mistrustful. Keep in mind that trust is the glue that holds
healthy intimate relationships together.
4. You have to change who you are - your values, goals,
or dreams - for your partner to accept you. Since your partner
is unwilling to compromise — you morph into someone else to
accommodate their needs and subsequently lose vital parts of
your identity.
5. You simply aren’t ready to make a commitment. You
want to take your time to pick a partner who shares similar
values and interests — this will enhance your chances of
staying together.
6. You have a healthy respect for commitment and just
haven’t met someone you want to make a permanent
commitment with. Avoiding marriage before your late 20’s and
dating a partner for at least two years will reduce your risk of
divorce.
7. You’re content being single and can’t think of enough
good reasons to tie the knot.[/b]
[size=200]be happy[/size]
