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6 things a lady should never do for a man because of love

6 things a lady should never do for a man because of love

By Blessedgirl in 26 Jun 2015 | 05:51
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Here are some things that you should never do for your man

1.Ignore Your Dreams
Just because he wants you to spend time with him or be around him always, should not make you feel guilty into turning down that big promotion or the chance to go for thyuat prestigious conference abroad. He should never ask you to make a choice between your dreams and him. There should always be a common ground to work on. Ask yourself, would you be happy in a relationship where you have to give up your hard-earned dreams? If he loves you, he will understand that your dreams and career are as important as his.

2. Modify your values
All of us have our own set of moral values and principles that we believe in. These values form our identity and individuality to a good extent. Never try to change your morals just because your man wants you to. Even if you two don’t share common values, he should always respect yours, rather than change them. This is not just about moral values; it is also about religion and beliefs. Such things cannot and should not ever be changed just because someone else wants you to do so.

3. Change Your Look
woman should never change her appearance or the way she looks only because her man desires so. Subtle changes are acceptable, like dressing and styling ones. But if he wants you to go for surgeries to change certain aspect of your appearance then never agree to it. He should admire your natural beauty and not work towards changing it. Just because he doesn’t like the way your nose looks or if he finds your ears too pointy, it should not guilt-trip you into going for something as drastic as a surgery.
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4. Sacrifice your personal space
Even your family and friends need your time and attention, and this is something even you enjoy, right? So, never sacrifice your personal space and time that you should be spending with them just because he wants you to. Try to divide it and strike a balance. Just because you are in a relationship does not mean that you do not need anyone else apart from him. And, he should understand and respect that.

5. Forget Who You Are
Never try to act what you are not. Do not show that you are less intelligent than him just to boost his ego or only because it will make him happy. Men like independent women, so acting stupid is not going to help at all. Also, you should not change your likes and dislikes for him. These things make you unique. So, do not lose your individuality and identity for a man. At least, not when you are being forced to do so

6. Handing over the reins
Never give him the access to be in control of you. No matter how much you love him, the decisions should always be mutual. He should never make the final decision of what you should and shouldn’t do. Always discuss with him, but make your decision keeping your own lifestyles and choices in mind.

Ladies, keep these things in mind. There are certain aspects of your personality that you should not change for a man, even when you are in love. If you are not true to yourself, you can never be true to your relationship!

DO YOU AGREE WITH ME?
26 Jun 2015 | 05:51
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Nah, ah don't!!!
26 Jun 2015 | 11:11
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@Iamchris! I knw u wont agree.you want a girl to change her identity,looks and everytin bcos of u.hmmm
26 Jun 2015 | 11:33
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so so true. If he really loves u, he gat to understand u
26 Jun 2015 | 11:37
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Real fact
26 Jun 2015 | 13:30
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100% True Talk.
26 Jun 2015 | 15:21
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I agree with u dear,real fact......
26 Jun 2015 | 16:08
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Lol...u try
26 Jun 2015 | 17:37
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uhmmmm i reserve my comment
26 Jun 2015 | 18:18
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True true, I agree
26 Jun 2015 | 18:45
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I wonder why guys and girls always find something to against eachother and i can see all this is greatly affecting many healthy relationship badly...people always look only at the advantage of things what of the disadvantage ?...is it every time that a girl/guy find his/her self in a relationship he/she wish for ? The God that put love among them knows what he's doing and see them before he do so... That religion of a thing is not the control of any relationship but the what God wants the person to change to which means if a guy/gurl change because of their partner its been written ... Great facts @Blessedgirl more wisdom
27 Jun 2015 | 00:31
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Hmm true buh....
27 Jun 2015 | 11:23
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nay...don't think so
27 Jun 2015 | 11:57
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I totally agree wif u
27 Jun 2015 | 13:11
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i wont even like a girl whu will change are trues self bcus of me (be whu u are)
27 Jun 2015 | 15:43
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nah,.dont agree
28 Jun 2015 | 15:45
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