Like I said in the other thread, I would be
discussing and highlighting elaborately
on this topic, so sit, relax, your popcorn
beside you…read and enjoy!
This post is inspired by the
following………….personal experiences with ladies, friend’s experience,
“ex-“experience, and other social
interactions. Without wasting much time
lets fire on; 1.) INSECURITY: This is a very very
common trait in ladies that’s why its
gonna be on the top of my list. most
ladies are insecure, don’t trust
themselves and don’t know who they
can trust , that’s why you can’t find them running their mouths after getting laid,
to the extent that they don’t discuss with
their so called “bestfriends” whether
they enjoyed the s*x or not. (Lol! We
already know then answer). 2.) THEY DON’T LIKE SHARING: Most
ladies cannot tell or discuss with their
friends how they had a great S#xual
experience with their FWB(friend with
benefits), sugar-daddies, aristos, etc so
that their friends don’t go behind them to enjoy what they are obviously
enjoying. Ofcourse if Dayo has just
enjoyed a great s*x with her FWB, she
would not want to discuss with her
friend’s the new tips and styles she has
recently discovered, even if u would hear them “mistakenly” talking about it. You’d
be hearing stuvs like…..”its not me o ….i
only watched it in a movie”…..meanwhile
they where the one playing the lead
character in their so called “movie” 3.) THE NATURAL OCCURRENCE: In
this part of our world it is a non-
argueable fact that more often than not,
its quite normal for ladies to avoid
discussing S#xual matters, why because
its just part and parcel of them. Most times its traditionally, culturally and not
normal for 2-3 girls to start discussing
how big vizkiz di*k was the last time he
made out with them. Of course to every
rule there is, and would always be an
exception, because of this you would still find some girls discussing about s*x,
Its only normal for them cos its either
they are olosho, aristo, or some craxy
azz bit*h*s. 4.) THEY ARE SOMETIMES
VICTIMIZED: I have come to realize this
over my sojourn in the S#xual world, the
few girls that get to discuss about their
various S#xual experiences often use it
against themselves when they fight, quarrel, or have issues. You would hear
them cursing themselves on how they
have fu*ked every big black Joystick in
their department or faculty(sweet
moment!) they are naturally sly’s. Once
they have issues, they start shouting on themselves and letting their various(little
or big) secrets out of the bag. Ofcourse
you would never find a guy cursing his
fellow guy about s*x . Unless only if the
guy has fuked his wife or GF ……….its
simply a fact! 5.) THEY SEE IT AS AN “AWKWARD”
STUFF: Most girls keep their S#xual
escapades at a deep corner of their
heart as their big or deepest secret, this
happens mostly to guys that they are not
dating or have any legal relationship with. They really see discussion of s*x as
an extremely awkward stuff which
should be kept aside, undiscussed and
restricted in the darkest part of their
hearts…….lol! even if you don’t discuss
it amongst yourself we already know you did it….issokay! 6.) THEY SIMPLY DON’T HAVE TIME
FOR IT: A lot of ladies generally don’t
discuss s*x simply because they don’t
have time for it, instead they prefer to
engage themselves in either following
linda ikeji’s blog, nairaland, facebook, IG, and the likes. 7.) SOME FEEL IT SHOULD NOT BE
DISCUSSED: Ladies in this part of our
world never see the discussion of “after-
s*x” as a necessity or importance, they
feel its their private life. Though some of
them may have S#xual problems which needs to be attended to urgently, they
wouldn’t still discuss, they totally forget
that a problem shared is a problem
solved. Even with their peers they still
keep that aspect of them unattended to. 8.) SOME OF THEM HAVE HAD VERY
NASTY EXPERIENCE IN THE PAST: Its
sometimes very, and so unfortunate
when you finally manage to get a girl to
talk about her S#xual life and you find
out that it has been a total disgusting experience for her, due to the fact that
her first S#xual experience was by
Molest or coercion. You get to find out
that some girls boyfriends Molest them
or force them without their adequate
permission,(ofcourse it should not be done this way, as s*x should be a mutual
agreement between 2 adults) due to this
displeasing experience they don’t want
to discuss anything that has to do with
s*x. Whenever the discussion of s*x is
brought up just count them out of it! 9.) THEY CAN ALWAYS “KISS AND
NOT-TELL”: Unlike we guys that would
always want to kiss and tell . Some girls
can be very good at keeping secrets,
they can sleep with over 5guys and none
of their other girlfriends would know. These kind of girls are highly secretive
to the extent that to get things out of
them is harder than a camel passing
through the eye of a needle. 10.) OK! Feel free to add yours …..most
especially girls in the building ….. Written by legundarybeans…
